Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Learning The Roles Of Man And Woman


Judge among yourselves.
Is it proper for a woman
to pray to God with her head uncovered?
Does not even in nature itself teach you
that if a man has long hair,
it is a dishonor to him?
But if a woman has long hair,
it is a glory to her; for her hair
is given to her for a covering.
But if anyone seems to be contentious,
we have no such custom,
nor do the churches of God.
1 Corinthians 11: -- 16

            Just as Paul stated: "Judge for yourself" we should do the same and this we shall do for those words in regard to head covering, or long hair have been a matter of contention in the church for quite some time.  Let us return for just a moment and let's re-examine what Paul was inspired to write in this we find in the same chapter in versus 7 through 11.  We find that the Holy Spirit inspired Paul to re-stake that man is in the image and glory of God and woman is the glory of man. Oh!  This flies in the face of our current culture whereby the current wisdom is that women should have the same equality as a man.  The Genesis account in regard to man, man was created from the dust of the ground by God.  Furthermore, God did not use the dust of the ground in the making of a woman before she was made from the rib of a man.  Now if a man desires to hold some sort of superiority over a woman due to this fact been they are in contradiction to what God had Paul writes that man was created for woman and woman for the man.  This is an equality for they are both fit for each other but this does not mean that each have the same rank or requirement rather they are to be of help for one another.  Man is not independent of woman and woman is not independent of man both need each other.  It is only when this rubric is set aside, or discarded that both sides renounce their God given rank and responsibility that problems enter into their lives and to the churches, and certainly do not have the blessing of God.  One may cavil at God's economy, or arrangement, but this is to judge God as being wrong.  In the very beginning and Genesis 3:16b a pronouncement was given upon both man and woman but in this part of the verse it is stated that the woman's "desire" would be for her husband and that the man should rule over the woman.  A lot of discussion over this has been forwarded by many men throughout the ages and I can only offer what I see this means: "Your desire shall be for your husband."  Is God only stating that she would have some sort of sexual attraction to man, or is this desire something more?  It was already natural that there would be this sexual attraction between both man and woman therefore to state this would only be stating the obvious and cannot mean sexual attraction.  Therefore then, to desire is to desire what her husband has and that is the role of being a superior, or head of the family, whether it be with children or only with just a spouse.  Let us see how this overreaching desire has worked out in the world.  Before I begin, let me fully address this issue: woman is equal in brain power and in some cases even in physical power.  There are differences between man and woman that are fitted so that when they come together they are better able to make proper decisions that would be of help to them, and two others.  Just because there are differences of such things as emotion, or even in some cases physical ability, that type of love that only a woman can give especially to her children, a type love that men have a different approach in loving their children and even their lives does not mean that both man and woman are not equal.  The difference lies in the roles that each should be playing out for this is the way that God has made man and woman.  Let me also make this admission: Adam sinned greater than his wife Eve!  Adam had the responsibility to not allow for sin to enter into this world and this he did not do.  Yes, both sinned!  When it is said that man is to rule over woman only means that women have a particular place according to God to be in the direction to their own husbands at the entrance of sin destroyed that dispensation of God for men.  If man had not sinned, he would always have ruled with the wisdom and love; if the woman had not sinned, she would always have obeyed with humility and meekness.  Yes even faulted by tempting her husband but that is all she could do was to tempt him, she could not force him; though it was her fault to persuade him to eat it, it was his fault to listen to her.  Due to this great sin of Adam all of his posterity, all of his progeny, inherits from him a corrupted soul that does not desire to do the will of God.  This corrupted soul did not just exist with Adam but due to sin even the soul of Eve was corrupted.  And we see the results of this corruption in this usurping of the roles that God established in such things as a high divorce rate, abortion, homosexuality, and a homosexual affiliation in what is called same -- sex marriage.  We see children with lack of real respect and a high use of drugs to find some sort of euphoric lifestyle.  We see it in the type of music that leads to such things that God hates.  Children come home to an empty home while their mothers are out attempting to have some sort of worldly success.  We find fathers not coming home to care for their family and yet spend great time drinking alcoholic beverages or doing other things that keep them from their home usurping their responsibility.  Judge among yourself what is proper.  Yes Paul was addressing certain customs among the Grecian people but we are to find the principles that led Paul by the Holy Spirit to address the misuse of those custom.  Therefore, the principles are what we need to apply and returned back to the dispensation and economy of God for man, woman, and children.  The question is: Will we do it!

Let us search out and
            examine our ways.
Let us lift our hearts
            in the hands to God
in heaven.  We have transgressed
            and rebelled; You have not
pardon.
                                    Lamentations 3: 40 -- 42

Repent: God will forgive and bless

Richard L. Crumb

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